Hello. I have all this energy to express my love to my wife, and I would like to know from other women what really makes you feel loved, appreciated, happy, wonderful, special that your man does for you?
thanks,
God bless you
Sat Nam
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SatNam
Washington, D.C.
  • Smiles, real ones. Kisses that are totally surrendering, touches that are completely unafraid, cuddles while watching a movie. A planned day somewhere like to a trail or park I've never been to and where all the complicated details are taken care of. Thoughtfulness like if I have a headache he'll go and get what I need to remedy it or if my stomach hurts he'll get what I need without being asked. This applies to feet hurting or stiff back. The time taken to really really know how to do a good massage and to take the time to set up a space for a candle lit massage with the right amount of oil. Too much and the mood and everything is ruined. But it's personal for her. She must have certain things that she particularly likes to do or that she does often and would like a break. Of course let her in on what's going on with you in your life and what you've been thinking about life and your life together. Above all never keep a woman in the dark. If she always starts conversations whether it's about her personal life and thoughts to some kind of engaging subject then bring something up yourself that would be of interest. Of course thinking of something new to do together or some new place to go to make it "your place" is great. It's important to me to have "our favorite restaurant" and "our park" and "the places we go to often. I actually enjoy grocery shopping together. Some men really hate grocery shopping or especially clothes shopping but he enjoys shopping with me. It's not a drag to him at all. It matters to me that it's fun for him too because he can take his time looking me over! some women don't like to be ogled even by their partner but some do! Showing spontaneity and interest in different ways is the name of the game to keep the relationship growing and nice and fresh.

    Have fun!
    • Attention on me. And that can result in countless manifestations; some that have been discussed here. Moment by moment we want different things, and if you have your attention on me and on giving me what I want, nothing will feel greater. So sometimes it's kisses and sometimes it's massage and sometimes it's hugs and sometimes it's a clean kitchen and sometimes it's talking or laughing or you just noticing that I seem a bit off today.

      I just want your attention. Nothing makes me feel more loved.